Relationships: what to do if a loved one does not love you

Probably nothing worse (except for deaths and diseases, of course) than unrequited love. This is one of the most painful forms of mental suffering. It is especially acute, with an anguish, it is heavy and melancholy, it occurs in adolescence, which is rare for someone without such a murderous and all-consuming love. The first love, which is often unrequited, is an age-related illness, which, fortunately, goes along with the childhood years of life. Becoming older, we are no longer so affected by emotional storms, although love without reciprocity can happen even at a fairly respectable age. And if the first love because of the specifics of age with its maximalism has already been experienced and quite quickly forgotten, then a "mature" unrequited feeling can sometimes even be more difficult. What if the person you do not love? To stay or to abandon him? Both options are difficult to implement.

What if the person you do not love?

There are no universal answers to this question, just as there are no two identical people in the world. The most "simple" options for developing such a relationship are the parting or the continuation of torture for one side. The gap, of course, is painful and sometimes very difficult to survive. However, it looks like a shock therapy: at first it's scary, but then it's good. It is because of the fear of this initial, temporary pain that so many women do not dare to take radical measures. They prefer to stay in these relationships, hoping for an illusory reciprocity, than to change something in their life. It is impossible to condemn anyone here, everyone has the right to dispose of his destiny in the way he likes. If it's decided to stay, then what should I do about it? If a loved one does not love you, but you do not want to lose him, but also dreams of getting him reciprocated, then it's worth staying. But you need to be patient, prepare for the painful and tearing expectations and the days when there will be a faint hope for the manifestation of gentle feelings on his part. In addition, what else to do, if a loved one does not love you? Work on yourself and change to cause even an interest in yourself, which then can be transformed into something else.

What you need to do to win love

"Conquer" is a word with a touch of aggression, but it's usually said that when people want to get love from their object. If you decide to do this, choose a tactic, resorting to which, you can wake up the passion in it. It should include elements such as working on your appearance (changing hair style, make-up style, improving the figure), working on your own behavior and attitude towards your man. What does this mean? Say pleasant and gentle words to your beloved guy when meeting and alone. Men are not indifferent to compliments and praise, only do it as if casually, in no case obsessively. How to call a loved one with this? You can traditionally: "cat", "rabbit", "sun", "beloved", "you are my hero", "only", "unique", etc. The main thing is that the timbre of the voice emits tenderness, affection. Let him know that he is the best of men on earth. Of course, with some compliments the way to his heart can not be broken, but it will be one of the most important components in the strategy. And everything else has to be selected based on the characteristics of a particular man.