Who invented the ideal qualities of a man?

Why are the qualities of men more concerned about women? After all, it's no secret that the "strong" of this world also dream of resembling the famous heroes of novels and movies that conquered the whole world with courage, nobility and other gentlemanly qualities. And it is enough for the men themselves to associate themselves with those, while women must certainly instill these book qualities of heroes to their chosen ones.

For her

Women are sure that the main feature that they themselves should possess is beauty. But to the necessary qualities, men are credited, among all others, with the ability to earn money. In addition, their chosen ones should also be beautiful, generous, intelligent, strong, and courageous.

The thing is that the concept of "ideal man" for women and men has different meanings. So, women of the quality of an ideal man equate to the status of a good husband. In their opinion, the good qualities of men are those that they like. He must help around the house, prefer hunt or fishing together with her pastime, in no case to spend money on friends. Best of all, if he gives them to his wife for a new dress. Paradox. A woman searches for a good husband all her life, focusing on the best qualities of a man. But as soon as he finds it, he mercilessly destroys all those qualities that he once saw in him. Once the chosen one conquered it with gallantry, and today the politeness shown to them in relation to the unfamiliar lady becomes a weighty reason for another scandal. So maybe, ladies, you should initially look for an obedient husband, not an ideal man?

Male look

According to the beliefs of the descendants of Adam, a real man is a reliable comrade and a man of his word. Decency, dedication, loyalty, courage, honesty are those qualities of a man, based on which, the father brings up his son. Men's opinion on this score is more based on high moral principles, although following them is not always characteristic of the modern representatives of the stronger sex. In addition, they know better than women what qualities of men attract beautiful ladies. But inherent in them by nature selfishness prevents us from improving our character for the sake of our loved ones. A man sincerely believes that you just need to love, and not for some quality. And, unlike a woman who, at least initially, tries to veil some of her shortcomings, the man is open. "Love me as I am," he says of his behavior, which women can not understand and appreciate. Although in their list of requirements for the elected demands, honesty and openness do not stand in the last place.

From the above, we should draw one conclusion: the ideal man - the image that women paint themselves, in order to find a worthy companion of life. And the stronger the love of a partner, the more obvious are the positive qualities of a man. As soon as the senses cool down, they mysteriously dissolve in the life of a life together. It turns out that the ideal man for a woman is the one she loves. So the man, in order to correspond to the ephemeral parameters, it remains only to reciprocate.