Treason Infidelity

Treason ....

About this written and said a lot, but how much of it ruined people, and not only physically but also morally. Psychic failures against this "sin" are also very frequent, and physical harm can be caused in a state of affect, either to yourself, or to your partner or partner partner. Sorry for the confusion).

And so, the reason. Sometimes it is not at all clear, because very often there are couples in which, according to them, everything suits, both in sex, and in communication, at home, etc. Then the question: "Why?" Frequently sounding answers: I do not know how it happened by itself, I did not want to (did not want to), I wanted something new, then I can continue to infinity. Most likely, the true reason, in pairs where everything is good, is a person's desire for new sensations and when a long forgotten or untested feeling arises, of course, against this background it will be very difficult to resist the tactile desire for physical intimacy. And often it happens that after the first contact all desires and feelings disappear irrevocably.

What was it? The intrigues of Satan or God's test of your willpower, which, in fact, is equivalent.

Someone condemns the traitors, but someone treats this simply and easily. How does it relate to treason? It depends on everyone's thinking, although it is natural that the strongest condemnation is the dominant one. After all, in some countries for such tricks you can pay head and sometimes ... ..), while in others the husband sends his wife himself to the work of the oldest profession, to say nothing of his wife, and sons and daughters, which by our standards is not at all acceptable .

For me, for example, the most serious betrayal is physical in sum with the moral. This is when your partner, to whom you trust all your secrets, not just "sleeps" with someone, but also says about you all sorts of different "things" that, in fact, must know the one (that) whom you trust and Himself decided to tell and most often this person is one and this is your "half". Strangely enough, there are cases when betrayal only strengthens the relationship, although I think that the sediment remains very long.

How to be? How to make it so that no betrayal broke into our lives? No way. It is unlikely that there is a panacea for this, unless that cut off something from someone or sew something: -0, especially in one of the sexes, many vital parts of the body will have to be sewn. This is clearly not an option. You can watch, say that I'll kill, if I find out and completely exhaust myself with jealousy, which not only kills the relationship and you (itself) but even more provokes a betrayal. And you can betray treachery with betrayal "that's how they lived, slept apart, and the children were," is also not an option.

I think all the accumulated human experience on this topic can be reduced to a pair of proverbs: "wolves are afraid of not going to the forest" - you still have to trust people and "trust but verify" - one can not believe indiscriminately in every nonsense. And this and that is true here only one reservation can be-it is necessary that everything would be in moderation even though it is difficult to think about the measure at the moments of the emotional explosion, but we in fact people are different from animals that we can control ourselves.

In the end, I would like to wish that we did not have to face it (it's unlikely) and if we ran through it easily and do not do stupid things, and in some cases even forgive your loved one because everyone can stumble.