To divide the skin of a non-bearded bear: the meaning of the proverb, the interpretation

We often hear: "Do not share the skin of an unfortunate bear." The meaning of this phraseology, as a rule, we know. It boils down to the fact that one should not rush things, rush to write something into an asset, put a mental "daw".

What does phraseology teach

Like most of the wisdom of the people, this saying teaches sanity. It comes down to first doing everything right, and then celebrating the victory. If you look for a close analogue to the expression in Russian, it will be: "Do not say" gop "until you jump over." Thus, everything must be done on time and to the place. That's why they say: "Do not share the skin of an unfortunate bear." The meaning, we think, is understandable both young and old.

But originally this expression was coined as an admonition to the young. After all, youth is most inclined to all sorts of projecting, she also believes that she has time for a car and a small cart. On the contrary, mature people prefer to live their daily tasks and affairs. Maybe because they have adults, and youth, as a rule, is carefree, and she constantly has to pull back and say: "Do not share the skin of an unfortunate bear." The meaning of this expression to young people is usually well known, so they calm down, but not for long.

If you want to make God laugh, tell him about your plans

You can not think of anything, because life is unpredictable. You can not put too much hope on something. In the expectation we put emotions when the first do not come true, we get frustrated. If you do not hope and do not try to share the skin of a dead bear (the meaning of the expression was discussed above), then there will be no disorders.

Cargo of other people's expectations

There is an article on the Internet, which details and even tiresomely describes why you can not tell other people about your plans. The final thesis is this: the whole consciousness is guilty.

Our unhappy consciousness takes speaking for a fait accompli and ceases to stimulate the body to achieve certain goals. Here confuses only two circumstances:

1. Is our consciousness so stupid that it can not distinguish between the possible and the real?
2. Is the person as a whole so stupid that he does not understand: how much do not say the word "halva", in the mouth will not become sweeter?

Therefore, we believe that the matter is completely different, and the article we refer to, the pure fantasy of its authors, and the scientific, psychological basis is not.

When a person tells someone about something, he makes a promise to the other person. The burden of these promises is pressing, the person feels uncomfortable, as if in a cage. As a result, the conceived is not realized. Therefore, one should trust the wisdom of the people, which the saying teaches ("to divide the skin of an unfortunate bear"). The meaning of phraseology is imbued with love for the present moment. Not to what happened in the past, and not to what will happen in the future.

M. Heidegger's "Tolerance" and Plans

One more variant of development of events and the answer to a question, why people do not realize the most part of the promises and zadumok in a life.

Man's projects are not really important to him, and he simply forgets about them. Life is fast, especially today, people, as a rule, do not remember 90% of what they say. Now, communication has become one of the ways of relaxation. M. Heidegger called it "explanations", that is, the process of conversation is self-valuable, but not in a good way, when we are vigilantly watching its thread, meaning and content, and in bad - we need to "kill the air", kill time, us Need background noise. In such conversations a person blurts out a lot of things. The interlocutor attaches great importance to this, and the speaker does not even remember his plans. So, the plans are not implemented: a) the person as a result does not cope with the load of other people's expectations and b) for him the spoken plans mean little. As a result, it turns out that it is better to plan and not build, but this model of life is available to a few, but it's a pity. In other words, do not share the skin of the unfortunate bear. The meaning of the proverb is unambiguous.

How to learn to live the present?

Buddhists teach that every day is a small life. Armed with this extremely wise thesis, let's say that far-reaching plans are better not to be built at any age. All these mental constructs are very unnerving and do not allow a person to live normally and solve specific tasks. Man constantly oppresses himself then past, then future, not knowing how to enjoy the present.

In this context, the issue put forward by us in the title of the section is very important, the answer to it is both simple and complex. To live follows step by step, gradually, not hurrying anywhere. Life is such that it is interrupted suddenly, so there is always the possibility of someone not becoming and not having time. But plans and a constant aspiration for the future are poisoning the present. So, it is not necessary before time to share the skin of the unfortunate bear. The meaning of the proverb sets the person to an indestructible union with the present.