Frigid wife: how to cope with this problem?

Among all the reasons why married couples break up even after long years of living together, sexual dissatisfaction (both men and women) takes a leading position. Whatever the opinion is, but in 90% of cases, it's not the "rude male" that is to blame, but the frigid wife.

It is this exclusively feminine disease that does not allow to enjoy both "spouses" of intimate life for both spouses , which causes not only numerous quarrels, but also frequent "side trips".

What does "frigid girl" mean ?

Frigidity is a woman, in most cases psychosomatic (psychological or fictitious aspects of the problem bring physical and physiological disruptions in the body's work) a disease in which a girl is not able to enjoy sexual intimacy with a man and in some cases has absolutely no desire to create it .

This is often manifested in the fact that a woman, not having learned proper pleasure after another sexual intercourse, experiences negative emotions, which subsequently forces her to evade intimacy, devising various reasons for this. Moreover, but from a certain moment, she begins to believe in them so much that they already seem real. This becomes a strong obstacle in the treatment of the disease.

I'm frigid! Why?

The reasons for frigidity are mostly psychological: lack of preference for intercourse, poor sexual perception of a woman, built on stereotypes, a woman's unwillingness to improve sexually, and even a banal negative first sexual experience. A bad sexual partner can play a role in the occurrence of frigidity, but often this statement remains at the level of myth. In almost every case, a frigid wife is the result of not a "bad" husband, but a marriage of convenience.

True frigidity occurs only with the formation of malignant tumors of the female reproductive system or in the case of malformations of the female body. In all the others they speak of false frigidity.

If a woman has found herself in a frigidity, it is mandatory to go to the nearest clinic for a complete examination of the body, and then - compulsory treatment for a sex therapist and psychotherapist. By the way, her partner is also recommended a mandatory visit to the above-named specialists.

Frigid wife: when the problem is not a problem

As it was said before - frigidity can be completely fictitious, and unwillingness to go to bed with a partner under the pretext of frigidity will mean a banal reluctance to sleep with it, and not with all men. If a "frigid" wife with a very well-off husband rarely appears at home and is inclined to "spend time with friends", then this is an ordinary fact of adultery. And all the "love", which she married, is reduced to money.

What should a man do if he has a frigid wife?

A mandatory criterion for preserving the family in this case is the full support of each other's spouses. Husband in no case should not roll up hysterics or blame everything on your soul mate. The problem is quite solvable, albeit by prolonged and tedious therapy. Only in this case the married couple will find not only "carnal" happiness, but also long-awaited harmony in the relationship.