Confidence is the guarantee of a happy life, is it so ?!

What does modern man look like to you ? Reliable, honest, fair? All these qualities, of course, are important. But one of the main characteristics for every modern person can be called self-confidence.

Lately our life is so fast and technologically developed that the confidence of a person gives him a chance for a bright, happy future. Not having confidence, he risks to be at the curb of this very life.

What is confidence?

Confidence is a fairly broad concept. Each person under confidence raises certain aspects for himself. Without delving into the philosophical justification of confidence, and considering it only as a generalized psychological factor, we can say that the state of a person is accepted as confidence when he considers any data to be true. Confidence, from a psychological point of view, is tantamount to belief and belief.

But if we consider the main popular definition, then the following statement is obtained. Confidence is the positive perception by the individual of one's own skills, achievements and achievements, which, in turn, bring satisfaction and positive emotions when achieving the set goals. That is, it is nothing but self-confidence.

It is on self-confidence and I would like to stop. After all, it is this quality that allows people to achieve life goals and actively coexist and communicate among themselves in modern society.

When does a person have self-confidence?

Every parent wants to see his child successful, communicative, witty. To the collective took and that the child himself feels comfortable in society.

To do this, it is necessary to educate the child's confidence from an early age.

It is proved that at the age of junior school children have adequate self-esteem, corresponding to an adult person.

How is it better to educate your baby so that he will grow up to be a confident person?

How to raise confidence in a child

• No comparison! Every child is unique. One draws beautifully, the second has a mathematical mindset, and the third - a born athlete. Do not put each of them as examples for each other. This approach will only humiliate a small person.
• Praise. Must be strictly dosed. If a child can easily cope with complex problems, always - this is the norm and should not sing to him praises. And if he suddenly received an "excellent" for the previously not given to him the Russian language, it is just an opportunity to rejoice heartily and praise your child. Naturally, the above examples are conditional and should be acted upon, in accordance with the situation.
• Adequate condemnation. If the child has made a mistake, foul, someone offended, you need to condemn only his actions and actions. In no event can you tell a child "you are bad", "you are naughty". It is more correct to say "this is an incorrect act", "it was not worth doing so". After all, confidence is a very shaky state in childhood. And nurture or ruin it - all in the hands of adults.

How to gain confidence in an adult

If it so happens that from an early age the person's self-confidence, in others, and in life as a whole is not inculcated. If a person grew up and grew up in doubts and with an unstable self-esteem - one should not think that everything was lost.

Confidence - this concept is very elastic. And it can change over the course of time more than once.

It is quite possible for an adult person to instill confidence in himself and raise his self-esteem. To do this, you need to follow several points:

• To understand for myself that working on yourself is really necessary. A man must himself rush to increase self-esteem, without his participation this venture is useless
• Surround yourself with communication. Start communicating with people with whom communication previously seemed unusual and unusual. Do not give up on friendly meetings and get-togethers. Expand in conversations. Without an active, adequate, diverse communication, it is quite difficult to gain confidence.
• Eyes to eyes! At acquaintance and dialogue it is necessary to try not to take away eyes. After all, direct contact with the eyes is one of the main signs of a confident person.
• Fears! After sorting out your main fears, you can automatically be considered confident in yourself, a person who is brave and strong both morally and physically. Afraid to ride an elevator - sit down and ride up and down. Afraid of cockroaches - visit exhibitions of exotic insects.

Acquiring self-confidence, each person becomes the present. Only with certainty can he accept and understand the world around him exactly as he really is. But this is what is important for a full and high-quality life.