What to Do When a Husband Changes?

What pushes our husbands for treason? Every woman would like to know the answer to this question. After all, with the appearance of a "third extra", relations in the family, as a rule, only worsen. And sometimes the fact that the husband changes, leads to a divorce. But a sad situation can be prevented by understanding the causes of treason.

Monotony.

A routine can turn even the most decent family man into a woman of fashion. If monotony in everyday life and at work, a man can still, as it is, then the lack of new impressions in sex, most likely, will push him to betrayal.

Self-affirmation.

Lack of promotion, and constant reproaches in the worthlessness of his wife, make a man look for victories on the side. He will seek and necessarily find a woman who will constantly insist that he is the most intelligent, strong and attractive. A bigger man and do not.

Fatal accident.

Imagine: a man goes on a business trip, where he ate at a restaurant, at the will of fate is at the same table with a charming woman. Who does not mind meeting you. The risk that his wife finds out about this change is close to zero. Agree, this chance man will miss in two cases out of a hundred. Such betrayals are not dangerous unless they become a habit.

Revenge.

God forbid, the husband will suspect his wife of treason! Not a single man will forgive such treachery. Some wives deliberately make their husbands jealous, wishing thereby to draw attention to themselves. Such a risk is not always justified. Learning about infidelity, even non-existent, the spouse can start all the hard, only because of the desire for revenge.

Social status.

In some circles of communication it is considered normal that a husband cheats on his wife. The presence of a mistress in this case is almost mandatory. Such infidelity rarely leads to the disintegration of the family, and in most cases is not a secret.

Mutual alienation.

Very often, spouses over the years lose interest in each other and live together for the sake of children, out of habit, or for other reasons. And then there must be a woman to whom the husband will devote all his attention, receiving in exchange affection, understanding, and consolation.

Bad influence.

Rarely enough, but quite probable reason of that the husband changes. Friends spending time exclusively in the society of accessible women, boasting of their victories and ridiculing adultery, can contribute to treason.

Razluchnitsa.

Perhaps the spouse and in his thoughts was not to change his wife, but suddenly a woman appeared, who had his long-term plans for him. Deciding to win a man, even married, a woman is capable of much. And breaking the will of the exemplary spouse at least once, she begins to manipulate him with the help of blackmail, pregnancy, suicide threat, and other methods.

What should I do when my husband changes me?

Having dealt with the reasons why change husbands, you can try to protect the family from destruction. But if the situation could not be prevented, what to do when the husband changes? There are only three variants of the development of events.

Option one: forgive. It's difficult, but possible. Everything depends on the desire of each of the spouses to save the family. Someone will find this option unacceptable, but to break the family because of the passing hobby of the husband is still not worth it. On the contrary, it is possible to derive additional benefits from this. The guilty men become more generous and caring.

Option two: do not notice. In order to know about the adultery of her husband and pretend that everything is in order, you need truly iron nerves. Or complete indifference to his wife. Some people are pushed to this stage by the fear of losing their husband. After all, in a weak family, another scandal could turn into a divorce. And someone considers treason to be a normal phenomenon, referring to the love of men.

Option three: divorce. Extreme measure, but if the husband is not going to leave his mistress, and relations in the family have long ceased to be smooth, then this is the best option. Often, divorce due to infidelity occurs in families where it was thought about for a long time, but were afraid to say out loud. In addition, if a man's infidelity is permanent, it is probably better to divorce than wait for another passion to lead him out of the family.