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What a man wants and how to conquer him

A standard situation, already full of nausea: a woman complains to a friend that her husband does not want to marry. She responds with sympathy, in the spirit of "that's a scoundrel!". She does not even think of asking the question: "Does he at all want to go with anyone in the registry office, or with you?". And maybe she does, but she does not ask not to offend. After all, he guesses why he does not make proposals. Hands and hearts, in the sense. Another thing, he probably offers sometimes ...

An age-old question: what does a man want? With him, in complexity, only another can compare: what does a woman want? In this case, it is necessary to distinguish desire and need. A person does not always want what he needs, and vice versa, he does not necessarily need what he wants. So how do you figure this out?

In fact, in their majority, the desires of the representatives of both sexes coincide at a certain age. And both need a family, they want love, attention and affection. And children are needed, because otherwise it's very difficult to determine the meaning of life, and the chosen one, however stupid he sometimes looks, sometimes still thinks about it. So it is enough for a woman to listen to herself to understand what a man wants from a woman of the most important thing : love, respect and attention. It's not so much, but that's all. And if he gets it, then there will not be a question with the registry office.

But this is provided that he loves himself. But it happens that it breaks his head lady, that he, a contagion, still need. And she has an apartment. And the work is good, and she herself, seems to be wow if the mirror does not lie. And she dresses well, and looks after herself.

Only men are different, like women. One wife is needed as a replacement for an aged mother who has been cared for, spent, fed, and taken all decisions for him. What does a man of this type want? Clearly, it should be sent. He, like a horse, should feel a rider. If he goes with the guys to drink, he knows for sure that the faithful in a couple of hours will come after him and drive home. And everything is in order! This is such a ritual, it a little razdrazhaet displeasure, but in the soul will be satisfied: still indifferent, and in reliable hands.

And here is another type, denoted by the expression "Who is the master of the house?". This, on the contrary, tends to dominate. Well, if he can really be responsible for everything that happens in the family - fine. What does the man-master want? With him, too, everything is clear, he needs to feel his importance, and that on the string in front of him ... Women are much smarter than often appears to such men, they can depict complete submission, while actually grasping at the illusion of power that they will be able to create.

The worst type of a representative of a stronger sex is called a rag. As they say, on bezrybe ... But even at a very critical age and the most hopeless situation, when a woman considers herself a "chansovetka," she should think hard, but does she need such a husband, or is it better to have one? What does a man-rag want? Yes, he himself does not know, except for the most simple physiological items, which include food, sex and a couple more procedures necessary for the body. Work in this list is not included.

Still there is a type of a man - a free falcon. This case is difficult, but not hopeless. We'll have to get on, but it's worth it. The biggest difficulty lies in the fact that such an eagle a woman needs not as a servant or cook, he is used to managing himself and can do everything. You can not buy it for food and laundry. But he has a need to admire himself and be the object of the raptures of his lady of the heart. If there are grounds for this, then complete harmony will come. But such a man can not be disappointed.

So, in nature there are only four basic kinds of men. All the rest - only some variations and combinations, because in its pure form psychotypes are rare. Having correctly recognized and applied the necessary tactics, every woman can ensure her success. But before you act, you still need to think.

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