Long since the people celebrated their birth and weddings with the greatest scope. A christening - this is a celebration of birth, but in the presence of the perpetrators of the celebration. And it is still in the depths of the subconscious mind that the desire to gather the largest number of people at the table on this issue is to hold everything with the maximum scale. And all the relatives run around with one pressing question about what is needed for the christening of a girl or a boy. Although the heroes of the celebration do not always want such a wide and tiring celebration. We will talk here about what should be prepared for and how to make the right decision.
Like the wedding, christenings are divided into two stages: a ceremony in the church and a celebration. Immediately I will say that the official part mainly depends on the orders, rules and wishes of the clergymen of the temple in which you plan to apply. And here practice sometimes comes to opposites. Therefore, do not be lazy and find out directly from the priest who will perform the sacrament, all the nuances, demands and wishes. Do not hesitate in the church to ask about everything that is necessary for christening girls. It will not be superfluous if you receive from the priest both spiritual attitudes and explanations about the forthcoming event, for under the tinsel of rituals very deep and serious things are hidden, the understanding of which increases success, lays the right attitude to the life of the new person. Spiritual matter is very thin: it can not be acted upon by force, but it can sometimes be involuntarily and unconsciously twisted.
In the modern world, much attention is paid to external attributes. Therefore, it is believed that the main thing that is necessary for christening girls, is a chic outfit for the child, for his godparents and all those present, as well as expensive things and accessories. The church often goes about this on occasion: it allows lavish dresses for christenings, gold crosses and shooting of the sacrament. But there is also a more orthodox attitude: a child in church should be dressed simply, conveniently, use ordinary things, and only then you can celebrate a holiday in what you want and as you want. Before God, all are equal, and the golden cross will not have more power than the copper cross. But the state of mind of those present can affect the rest of the child's life to a greater extent than any attribute, photographs and impressions of those present.
Considering all this and my own experience, I will say that it will be most practical to use shirts for baptism. Better yet, if they are fastened between the legs. In this case, all the necessary parts of the baby's body are open, and the cross is much more convenient to keep the baby happy for a long time. And after the end of the sacrament, you can dress up the child, and complement the toilet with accessories you like.
What else is needed for christening girls? In the church to wear hats, shoes and jewelry is not worth it. They will ask you to withdraw. But a large light towel is just necessary. Please note that your daughter will keep it for life. If the child is very small, then you can wear white socks and a light cap. Choosing clothes for the baby, think about how the godparents could quickly and without difficulty remove it all. Rarely today there is a ritual of completely dipping a child into a font, but legs, arms, neck and head have to be stripped of by all. Consider this and warn the godparents of possible difficulties.
And most importantly - do not worry. Churchmen are very calm people, patient and accustomed to all these procedures. Even if you have not foreseen something, mother or other helpers will help, prompt and contribute in everything. Often, even the necessary things - crosses, chains, icons, etc. can be purchased here on the spot. But I try not to take people's signs to heart, and I do not advise you. It's not always possible to influence the circumstances, but it's not worth to get upset because of this and spoil the mood.
The main ceremony is over. Now you can relax and rest as your heart desires. Plan everything so that it's comfortable for you and your child. Good luck!