Parting with a girl: a point of return - Internet

It's always difficult to disperse. Parting with a girl can for a long time deprive me of peace. It happens if you have affection or love for her.

To decide how to return the girl after parting, remember who was the initiator of the rupture of relations. If you insisted on this and now you regret, then you can easily restore everything. You will be quickly forgiven. But if the separation from the girl happened because she said this first, to achieve forgiveness will be more difficult.

So, you behaved badly and gave her an excuse to ask you to disappear from her life. But parting with a girl for you has not been in vain, you think about her. If this is so, let's define what does not give you rest-affection or love. Attachment will soon pass, but love can torment all life.

If two to four weeks have passed from the moment of the rupture, and there have been days in which you have not mentioned it, it's an attachment. Prepare for the fact that there will be more such days on each week. This means that parting with a girl you will live peacefully and soon cease to think about it.

If two or three weeks you think daily about the one with which you broke up, perhaps this is love.

Look again into yourself. Close your eyes, imagine the face of the girl you want to return. Now ask yourself the question: "Why do I want to return it?". If you can not answer immediately, then postpone the solution. The fact is that the chances of returning the girl is only from the one who is able to decide why he needs it. The decision can be considered accepted, when the answer to the question will consist of only one or two sentences.

After you decide to return it, do not immediately go ahead. If parting with a loved one can occur in one day, then the restoration of relations sometimes takes weeks.

The first steps to the truce you will make in the virtual space. To start, register under a different name in the social networks, forums, chats and groups that the girl visited before breaking up with you. Registration should take place without your real photo. If you do not want to lie, write your child's nickname and put your baby photo.

On the Internet you will have to re-acquaint yourself with your girlfriend, get close to her and become a desirable contact. While communicating, try to find out if she has a boyfriend. If so, why did they part? You need to hear her point of view about why the relationship has broken up, is she ready to forgive you if she finds out that you still love her.

While communicating with a girl on the Internet, you should not force events. Do not rush to "bend". Better sometimes with something to disagree and even argue. The goal of your communication is not just rapprochement. You have to understand and feel what your girlfriend felt at the moment of breaking off the relationship. In other words, learn to think like her. If you succeed, you are ready for a real meeting to ask for forgiveness.

Do not make an appointment until you are sure that the girl wants to meet.

What to say and do next, decide for yourself. After all, you now have not just a girl, but a friend whom you understand and love.