Immoral lifestyle: on the verge and beyond

The moral norms of any culture consist of observing ethical attitudes and admissibility of deviations from them. In addition, it is possible to lead an immoral way of life without even denying the generally accepted unwritten laws, but simply not fitting them into the flow of one's thoughts and principles of life. So, a lifetime of misunderstood outcasts are many brilliant writers and artists with their own vision of creativity. However, immorality can be malicious, provocative and dangerous for others.

Principles of immorality and violation of moral conduct

The concept of morality can not be the same for all peoples, therefore, when you get from one country to another, crossing the continents, you involuntarily change not only the geographical position, but also the conditional framework of permissible behavior. But this is a global concept. The narrower notions of moral norms are embedded in micro-societies in which a person constantly rotates. Each of us has such "framework" perimeters at least two - this is a house and work (study).

Personal perception of morality gives rise to a person's environment of the current time interval. It is impossible to consider that the standard of correct behavior in modern Russia is what made a person highly cultured in the 17th century in France. This is just as wrong as transferring our idea of female modesty to the current Muslim society, where even a woman reads some books for her immoral way of life.

It speaks first of all about the mass character of the notion of morality. It is pointless to resist him, since society immediately calculates in its ranks the dissent and isolates it. The measure of isolation in this case is prison, psychoneurological hospital, public control of supervisory bodies, etc. In the most favorable case, people are simply deleted from social ranks by moral alienation.

Immorality as a notion of wrongfulness

There is no doubt that an immoral way of life would be a lesser phenomenon if measures taken against standard cases of misconduct were toughened even to public reprimand, which is not always the case. Often, it would seem, harmless hooliganism grows to the grandiose forms of extortion, violence, theft (robbery) only thanks to the connivance of the "prosperous" society.

The absence of a criminal offense in most immoral acts allows citizens who are immersed in an immoral labyrinth to feel relatively protected. Public works, fines and other types of administrative punishment rarely bring the expected result and only deeper pushes the stray person into bitterness against cultural behavioral norms.

Immoral behavior in the family

The most severe form of immoral way of life, undoubtedly, refers to violations of the intra-family nature. Automatically, both parents fall under the "unfavorable" stamp because the inability to resist the tyranny of the moral deformity of one of the spouses also represents the absence of moral principles. If the father drinks and allows himself to threaten the life and health of family members, and the rest of adults suffer it, their moral principles also appear questionable.

Particularly painful is the situation when minors suffer from immoral way of life of parents. In exceptional cases and with the vigilance of outsiders (teachers, kindergarten teachers, neighbors), the state draws attention to individual families and establishes supervision over such risk groups. Even more rarely children from families are seized, but this happens only after convincing evidence that a child's living under the supervision of the family can threaten his life and morality.

The destruction of the child's normal social adaptation lies not only in the direct threat to his physical health - the indirect side that affects his personal notions of norms is no less important. This is the so-called "pressure" of parents, directed at each other - constant scandals, clarification of relations, sometimes - open, publicly demonstrated links between father and mother on the side.

Moral and moral fall of children in antisocial families

The first emotional attack received from the child in the event of his constant, even involuntary participation in family conflicts or observation of the immoral way of life of parents from outside is fear, misunderstanding, unconscious distrust of what is happening. This and the next stage are skipped if such a situation surrounded the baby from birth. Then, along with desperation, there comes a desire to restore understanding between the parents.

The next stage is hopelessness, behind which (as a consequence of the nature of the child) there can be: aggression, hatred or detachment, cullness. At this stage, younger children develop autism, there is a delay in development, behavior changes for the worse. Older children leave the family, attempt to commit suicide. Almost always it happens "for fun" - as a chance to give parents another opportunity to think, but often such desperate solutions end badly.

The language of dry statistics

Based on scientific research by TN Kurbatova (St. Petersburg), VK Andrienko (Moscow), AS Belkin (Yekaterinburg) and other authors studying the violations of the educational process in families, we conclude that there are general characteristics , Uniting problem families.

In the risk group for a distorted perception of moral values by the child, families fall into:

• Including one parent and child;
• With a low educational level of both parents;
• Where the immoral way of life of the mother or father is a constant factor;
• With a complete lack of patriotism, with contempt for social norms of behavior;
• Where at least one of the parents has a predilection for alcohol, was in MLS, etc.

This statistic is generalized and in no way is unambiguous.