This is not a simple adolescence

Sooner or later, all parents face the problems of educating their children, especially it is felt when the teenage age of the child makes itself felt.

This not simple period begins at about the age of ten. Children at this age become "explosive" and vulnerable, so it is very important to be able to correctly perceive the problems of the child and find an approach to it.

It should be noted that the specialists sing out the younger adolescence, which has its own characteristics and is the first signal for parents that their child is at the turn of his maturation. During this period, the main difficulties are observed in relation to the student to study and to peers.

All this is somewhat aggravated with the onset of the average adolescence, and this is 12-13 years. Although, it is unequivocal to say when exactly this period comes, it does not depend on the calendar age, but on the individual characteristics of the organism and is directly related to the moment of puberty puberty.

Incredible changes take place in the child's body, expressed in the physiological reconstruction of the body. It is during this period that mental and psychophysiological deviations of a person are observed. Adolescence, as a rule, is characterized by increased excitability and temper tantrum. Adolescents in this period are characterized by a picky attitude to themselves and their appearance, as a result of which self-esteem is lowered.

No less demanding children become and to their relatives, so often any behavior of relatives causes them irritation and even anger, as a result of which tension in relations and frequent conflicts increase.

The teenager has an internal contradiction, which is associated with a discrepancy between reality and his inner world. It turns out that physically he matured and matured, and his status in the family and the school did not change, so the teenagers begin their struggle and want to be heard, so that their opinion and voice become more weighty. However, they are trying to achieve this in their own way, as they think, the only true way.

Teenage age in boys is manifested in more aggressive behavior of the child. Many children start to smoke, because this is an adult habit, in their opinion, makes them even more independent and older. At the same time with puberty comes the desire to try sex, especially if the first love has settled in the heart of a teenager , which is often another difficult test if it is unhappy.

Adolescents unite and create companies of interest, eventually these groups can disintegrate, and perhaps become a solid foundation for further friendship, it is difficult to say in advance. The hobby of the child and the choice of the company can be another reason for quarrels and misunderstandings between him and his parents.

In the period when the teenage age of the child passes its peak, the teenager has his hobbies, in which he finds a real outlet. Conditionally, such hobbies can be divided into three types:

- intellectual and aesthetic hobbies (radio, music, history, drawing, etc.);

- accumulative hobbies (collecting discs, stamps, autographs of stars , etc.)

- eccentric (when a teenager wants to attract attention and prefers extravagant clothes, this includes fashion trends ready, emo, etc.).

During this period it is possible to establish relations with a teenager and to achieve mutual understanding. A respectful attitude to the interests and hobbies of a child at this age will make it possible for him to feel his importance and authority in the family.

Adolescence is not a simple test not only for the child himself, but also for his parents, because it is from understanding and respectful attitude towards the grown-up children that he depends on how he will treat himself, others and plans for future life and study.