Swedish family. Is it really that simple?

Group sex and the Swedish family - how are these two concepts related to one another? As it turned out, these are completely different things. The Swedish family is three people of different sex living together. Sexual relationship between them, as in any normal family, is certainly there, but it is due to the mutual feelings of the entire tandem. Sex three together does not initially imply any warm feelings between ... everyone, in general.

How does it happen that people enter into this kind of relationship and agree to live together? Most often, the Swedish family becomes an outlet in cases where, say, a girl can not choose between two young people, who she likes madly. In this case, she wants to keep both of them close to her, perhaps even to compare them. What to do?

Here it is necessary to take into account several significant circumstances. The first and most important obstacle - it is impossible to give equal attention to both beloved men (or women). The situation of competition for a partner (if we really love this partner), located in the center, is inevitable in any case. The outcome can be anything - up to the fact that you still have to choose between your favorite people, or they will just go away.

Secondly, the Swedish family is a difficult psychological situation for all. Is it possible to sincerely love two at the same time and share a beloved person with someone else? It is possible to argue on this issue indefinitely. But still remember: nerves at one time can simply not survive.

Third. Do you really think that by deciding to live together with two, do not want to try something else and compare the relationship with a lot of people? Even if the relative, but still freedom from "normal", formal relations is very relaxing. Where is the guarantee that the number of participants in the union will not increase over time?

Another reason for creating a tripartite union could be blackmail: "You do not want to live together, I do not hold you". Think about whether you need a Swedish family for a pair relationship, which is no longer in sight?

On the other hand, Swedish families are not deprived of their advantages. Such relationships can be convenient for all participants. When this condition is met, they can be quite strong and long.

Agree, to maintain coziness in a family nest is much easier for two women than for one. And the man will be surrounded by a double portion of care and tenderness. In the opposite case, two breadwinners will be better able to provide for their woman. But even here it is not without pitfalls - it is easy to accept warm friendly relations for love.

By the way, how do the Swedes themselves refer to the notion of "Swedish family"? It is interesting that they put a completely different meaning in this combination. In this country it is a form of cohabitation of a man and a woman, not yet officially registered. Our civil marriage, simply put. Children in this case, a woman can be from different men, because the attitude to such phenomena in Sweden is completely normal. And young people do not sign for one reason: divorce is not cheap. And the funds are safe, and nerves.