How to show yourself as a good girl: practical advice

It is more important to be really good than just to show yourself with the help of certain techniques. But how does a woman present herself to others in an attractive light, so she wants to continue communicating? There are a few secrets.

Exterior factor

This is the first thing that a male person usually looks at. Therefore, to neglect your appearance is never worth it. You can not appear in public with a fat head, bags under the eyes, arrows on tights, half-stained varnish on nails or stale clothes.

How to introduce yourself in an interview

The key to a successful outcome is the way you behave. After all, according to statistics, in 95% of cases the employer pays attention to how the potential employee behaves, and only in 5% of cases - on what he says. Having good recommendations from a past job and a red diploma is equally important, but if a girl is constantly looking at the floor with excitement or, worse, gnawing at her nails, she is unlikely to be offered a place.

So, how to show yourself a good future employee and create the impression of a confident girl? Here are some tips.

• Late is simply inexcusable, so for a day or two before the interview you need to know exactly how to get to the right place, whether there are traffic jams along the route, and how long it will take the road. Then add 20 more safety minutes to catch your breath before a responsible meeting.
• Even if in a daily life the girl prefers extravagant outfits, in this case the wardrobe should be more official, it is desirable that the tones are pastel, and the perfume is by no means evening.
• Before the interview, you can drink a glass of tea with mint or melissa (it will calm the nervous system).
• It is advisable to find out as much as possible about the company itself (background history, employee requirements, products).
• Hands are best placed directly on the table, sit flat, do not toss your leg. Gesture should be moderate.

In the work collective

How to show yourself good when you come to a new place of work?

• One way or another, they meet on clothes, so at least for the first time one should try not to look too pretentious against the background of colleagues.
• In the women's team do not try to get bosom friends.
• Participation in gossip will negatively impact on reputation, it is better to communicate on neutral or working subjects, and negative opinion towards someone is safer to keep to yourself.
• In a male team, in no case can we focus on our gender, since the most important thing here is a quality work done, and not the one who did it, a woman or a man.
• For colleagues of the stronger sex do not have to become "his boyfriend", otherwise you can subconsciously adopt their habits, and the girl is clearly not to face.
• Girl's tears in a man's team are hardly moved by someone, so it's useless to use them as a means of manipulation.

How to show yourself to a girl on a first date

• Too candid clothes will not help create the impression of a modest girl, so do not wear a mini skirt or put on a neckline. But it is better to choose a feminine dress or a pencil skirt with a blouse. Heels are also always in price. Make-up is mandatory, but it's better to accentuate either the eyes or the lips, but not all at once. A perfume should be taken not aggressive, but gentle, but that a train from it was heard at a distance of a meter.
• Intentionally late is undesirable, except that for about 10-15 minutes.
• At conversation it is necessary to listen more to the young man, instead of to speak most. During the course, you must ask leading questions, it will cheer up the guy and show that his story is interesting.
• Forbidden topics: relations with an ex-husband or a young man, their shortcomings and fears, complaints about a bad life or negative statements about anyone. Men with aching women do not like.
• Sincere smile is always appropriate, as well as good humor. This will defuse the situation.

When meeting with the guy's parents

How to show yourself a good future wife for their son?

• If the father and mother of the young man come home to the girl, then a thorough cleaning is simply necessary. Each mother tends to scan all corners in search of dirt when meeting with a potential daughter-in-law.
• At the subconscious level, the smell of fresh baking tends to positively and represents the girl as a good future housewife, so it's better to bake a cake for tea with your own hands, rather than buying in a store.
• For the young woman's parents, the girl should prepare a modest gift, but before that, be sure to ask his advice.
• Previously, you need to ask the guy about his mom and dad, what they do, get carried away, which ones are better avoided, and what they will talk about willingly, etc.
• In no case should not be silent the whole evening, like on matchmaking, but also to speak, without ceasing, also to nothing.
• Kissing or hugging a guy at the first meeting with his parents is simply unacceptable.

And one general advice on how to show yourself a good girl wherever: you do not have to restrain yourself in manifesting your positive qualities. To be real is the secret of success.