Cast-iron wedding

A year ago, a young couple celebrated a wooden jubilee from the wedding day - and this is the first "metal" anniversary. With each passing year, the green wedding (the day of marriage) is farther away, the spouses' relationship becomes stronger, and this is reflected in the names of wedding dates: cotton, paper, leather, linen, and wooden. All the older the family becomes, more and more there are joint memories, customs, family traditions. A young couple now connects a lot. Usually there is already a child in the family for this jubilee, and, quite possibly, not one. Cast-iron wedding is the date that should unite the husband and wife, help them believe that everything in life can be overcome if they are together with each other. It is for this period - 6-7 years after the wedding - that the time of the crisis of family relations takes place. Those who survive and step over this line in six to seven years, have a chance to live up to more expensive "metal" anniversaries: tin, steel, silver, gold, etc.

Six years together: the foundation of the family is laid, it remains only to strengthen it every year and protect from any hardship. Cast-iron wedding: like a strong metal - cast iron, but still fragile, rough, and plainly, black. It is fusible and therefore can take any form. So the form of future family relations depends only on the spouses: will there be cracks on the "cast iron" or it will "melt" into a stronger metal. The main thing is to stick to each other, give in, take care of a partner - then "cast iron" will become more durable and light with time. To live with your life companion until the next "metallic" wedding date, one must not forget the simple truth: family happiness consists of everyday trifles, from self-sacrifice and kindness, patience and the ability to forgive.

Cast-iron wedding - not a reason to collect a big and noisy company. Usually parents, witnesses, close relatives and good friends are invited. Close and friends can prepare a comic contest program to test the spouses, check their knowledge of the habits and characteristics of the spouse. Greetings with a cast-iron wedding can be clothed in a poetic, song or chastushka form.

To this wedding, the wife polishes all the cast-iron dishes to shine. Dishes are prepared different. But it is desirable that they (or part of them) be cooked on cast iron dishes (frying pans, baking dishes , etc.).

From the name of the wedding date - cast-iron wedding - it is clear that you can give a wedding for the young family on this day. And it is customary to present things made of cast iron. It can be practical kitchen utensils, always necessary in the household (frying pans, pots, atyanka, etc.). A nice gift will be small appliances for the kitchen (combine, aerogrill, blender, steamer, microwave oven, toaster, etc.) A nice surprise for young people will be fashionable forged furniture (chairs, armchairs, tables, etc.), original interior decorations (Candlesticks, cast-iron forged animal figurines, photo frames, floor lamps, small sculptures or sculptural groups, vases, caskets, sconces, umbrella stand, etc.). If a young family has acquired its own cottage or cottage over the years, the original gift will be for them a fireplace grate made of cast iron and the same set for a fireplace (scoop, poker, thorns).

Stability in the family, equality of relationships, care and love, responsibility for yourself and your loved one, for the child (children) and the family hearth - all this connects the spouses, marking the perfect date from the wedding day. Cast-iron wedding is an occasion to once again remember the brightest, happiest moments of family life, to look at your beloved person with new eyes and to understand that he is dear to you with all his lovely and not very habits, with his quirks and moods. Cast-iron wedding is an opportunity to renew slightly extinguished romantic ties that once united two loving people.