About Projections

In this article, we will consider such a thing as projection.

What is it expressed in? In a very simple principle. All that we see in the environment around us, is in ourselves. That is, everything you see in another person, or in life, is in you, too. I apologize if you are surrounded only by fools and bastards. Yes, yes, one day I will have to admit that my environment reflects my inner world, no matter how bitter it is. Just note that psychology is not the science of beauty. This is the science of the soul of man, and what is there in the soul? Love of neighbor? Altruism? Perhaps, we will be honest at least to ourselves and admit that in fact it directs our desires? If it is difficult to be honest at once, then we will look at our world around us to understand how much we have in our souls, everything is "harmonious". We ourselves, each individually, but made a contribution to what surrounds us. What goes around comes around.

Well, let's say some admitted that yes, de ** mo around, due to the fact that inside this very de ** ma a lot. What is there to do? And then do it. To study your de ** mo, and oddly enough ... love it. Because, as such, de ** ma then there. We do what is inherent in us by nature. And in nature nothing happens in vain! But this is already a separate broad topic.

Let us return to our projection. What gives us knowledge about the projection.

Here are some examples:

1. Girlfriend scolds, oh you change, I know you change. We read it - she herself does not mind changing.
2. The acquaintance tells of a neighbor: he is a drunkard, a lazy fellow, a scoundrel and, in general, a darling - we read, a familiar scoundrel, a potential drunkard, a lazy fellow, and in general a deaf person.
3. Self-improvement tool. Realizing that the world around you is a reflection of what is inside our consciousness (and subconsciousness), you can learn to keep track of your inner world and control them accordingly. Change your beliefs, thoughts, motives, etc. Why change them? Our life totally depends on ourselves. If something in life does not suit, you need to change your thoughts. Accordingly, we get: beliefs change - actions change, actions change - life changes. That is the management of your life.

Just do not believe it. Need to check! And what if it is not so? And you spent your time in vain reading this text? And maybe not in vain? In general, everything in your .. er, heads.