Where to Take Time to Develop a Child?

When a small child appears in the family, the center of the universe inevitably rushes to him. Parents, in addition to fulfilling universal human responsibilities for feeding, dressing, taking care of their baby's health, immediately begin to plan for him his future. We all want our child to grow up smart, talented, sociable, developed. I was a little better than ourselves. I did what we ourselves did not have the time, somewhere, opportunities, and somewhere talents.

Closer to three years of life, almost all caring parents understand:

First, the education provided by the state kindergartens is clearly not sufficient for the full development of the child. And in most cases there is not even a choice: go to the state kindergarten or commercial. The second is extremely small, and the first (state), focusing on the population with low incomes, provide the same low level of services. I would like that the teacher with a salary of 150 dollars would treat your priceless child as her own. But the children in the group are about 20, so even for a very responsible teacher from birth called to deal with children for each individual child remains several minutes a day.

Secondly, the child as he grows up, while at home, begins to take away from you a much greater amount of time. He becomes more and more interested in the surrounding space, the child's need for communication increases. And this all poured into a total occupation of the free time of parents.

How to be in this situation? How not to break between the desire to live by yourself and the desire to ensure the maximum possible development of the child? Practical dialectics of life.

At us on vskidku there are following possibilities:

1. Send the child to the grandmother. How good that in this world there are grandmothers. You can certainly count on the grandfathers, but for some reason they do not show such zeal in the question "can you sit with the child?" As grandmothers. This option is one of the most interesting. From the positive points, we can note:

• Minimum financial costs, and sometimes even savings (the grandmother after all will feed)
• The child is looked after by the native person that gives additional guarantees and calmness
• Complete release of your time, except for the delivery of the child to the grandmother and back
• "Young" grandmothers, as a rule, are not limited to passive observation of the child, but involve him in various developmental games. For them, the development of a child is not just a word, but the meaning of life.

How often it can be used depends on the interest of the grandmother and the limit of your "arrogance" and its strength

2. Developing schools and circles. If your child goes to a kindergarten, and after a kindergarten you still drag him to school development, then this is one of the most unfortunate options. Exceptions can be, only if the child actually rushes to such occupations. Otherwise, these are additional stresses and overloads for a child who has been running for a day and a hungry child, covered with slogans "the child must develop." Such schools are useful only if for some reason you do not go to kindergarten, and you have a whole day at all.

3. Nanny. Rather mythical than the common version. However, in large cities it is quite possible to find a retired teacher who will deal with your child in the evenings.

4. Developing games. An interesting moderately expensive option is to buy a child a number of developing games such as mosaics, designers, etc. The hope that he will want to play them is quite realistic and can justify himself by allocating you some free time. Developing materials on paper is one of the most economical and useful ways to take your child. All that is required is several sheets of paper and a set of pencils. Parents with particularly strong nerves can take a chance and add pencils and paints to the pencils. My son, for example, likes to do coloring, which you can download and print for free.

And in conclusion I want to remind you that the release of parents' time is not an end in itself. After all, to enjoy communication with a child can and should be while it is small. Only a few years will pass, your baby will become so independent that you can not spend time with him, even when you want.