Rules of conduct with strangers

Certainly, in your life you have to visit at least once in an unfamiliar society. It is for such situations invented rules of conduct with strangers. When you get to celebrate the birthday of a distant relative or to a classmate at a party, you may find yourself surrounded by strangers or unfamiliar people. How to act in this situation? Many choose for themselves - do not stand out, huddle in a secluded corner and wait patiently for the end of the event. Others - prefer to wander for an hour and referring to the headache to leave the holiday. But you can try to become "your own" and make new acquaintances. Simple rules of conduct with strangers will help to join the company and expand the circle of communication.

1. The first principle: in order not to stand out, try to laugh at jokes along with others. Of course, very often in narrow companies tell funny funny things that happened to someone from friends. You should laugh together with everyone and can tell such a funny incident from your life. People like cheerful, cheerful interlocutors. They not only tell in pleasure, but also laugh at someone else's jokes, the main thing is that they are appropriate.
2. Do not ask personal, unpleasant questions. In this situation it is necessary to judge by yourself, do not ask about what you yourself would not have answered. It is always better to ask a general question to maintain the conversation. Let the conversation be unobtrusive. Asking the interlocutor a question, let him express his point of view to the end, do not interrupt him. People love to be heard, when they are interested. However, to the question "How are you?", It is worthwhile to answer the question, in order to allow the interlocutor to continue the conversation.
3. Try to find a common language with the company. In this case, do not be like them, dropping to the scolding and obscene words. Choose a pair of persistent expressions when communicating. Try to find someone who is interested in the same issues as you, it is easier to talk with him. Perhaps he will introduce you to his friends.
4. Refrain from negative evaluation of someone from others. While you are unfamiliar with the company well, do not make premature judgments. If someone responds unflatteringly about the person present, this does not mean that an outsider can also be expressed. While you are not aware of the situation, it is worth keeping silent.
5. Be considerate and courteous. Try to be polite. Address the interlocutor by name, if you forget his name, ask again, citing a bad memory of the names. You can, of course, wait until he is called. But you risk waiting a very long time.

Rules of conduct with strangers are fairly simple and do not require special skills. In principle, they are just as elementary as the rules of behavior in the lesson. About which we will go further.

• Students after the signal about the beginning of the lesson should stand at the desks, having prepared everything necessary for the lesson.
• When you are late for a class, only the teacher can start up.
• Standing up, the students greet each incoming adult or teacher
• In the lesson, you can only answer after the teacher's permission.
• It is not allowed to talk or interfere with the lesson.
• On the desk there should be only the necessary items, everything unnecessary should be put into the bag.
• To get up and leave the classroom is allowed after the teacher's consent.
• All their business needs to be done at a change, which would not distract the teacher during the lesson.
• In the corridor is not allowed to run, jostle, scream and fight. You can play without breaking discipline.
• Sitting at the lesson, the student should pay attention to the posture, the position of the legs and the inclination of the head.
• It is not allowed to use cheat sheets and other tips.
• The signal about the end of the lesson sounds for the teacher, so you can get up and leave the class after his consent.
• If the student misses classes, he must provide a certificate from the medical institution or a note from the parents.
• Skipping classes is prohibited.

As you can see, these are rather important, and by no means ridiculous rules of behavior. Especially if you want to show yourself on the good side. Despite the fact that the rules of behavior with strangers are invented a long time ago, they are still relevant today.