Polite words. List of the most important beauty

It is said by the classics that people's thoughts and clothes should be beautiful. But where does the sixth or seventh sense in which he discerns, what is beautiful and what is ugly, come from in man? It is brought up by the beauty of interpersonal relationships. From the wealth of the inner world of our distant ancestors appeared polite words in Russian.

Verbal garbage, from which the souls wither away

When we hear from people of other nationalities the assertion that Russians are unpleasant, because they communicate with obscene words among themselves, one wants to give each Russian a phrase book, in which a hundred ordinary polite phrases would be written. But many would not have taken it. They would be offended, because they are proud of the fact that the whole world is cursing "Russian mats". This is scary. The people who have generated from their midst the luminaries of universal human culture, use a dirty, dirty word in all spheres of human activity.

But in Russian there are polite words. The list, the list of them can be made quite long. Why not update, not reintroduce the beautiful Russian word "sir"? (And in addressing a woman this word sounds even better and more euphonious - ma'am). But many souls had time to wither in an atmosphere of verbal garbage. "Hey, you bald, pass on a ticket!" - this phrase darkens the mood not only to the person to whom it is addressed, but also to many others, to whose ears these words were heard. And to imagine what can be said and in a different way, many already can not. "Be so kind, pass on the ticket" - who among us heard such an appeal in the transport?

"But what's the difference!", Exclaim, and not even ask. But please! Is it really that the appeal "Hey, you!" Is more pleasant to hear than "Sadar"?

How do others perceive us?

Sensitive souls of poets have already noticed changes in the mentality of the Russian people, but it happened because of our use of sentences with polite words left our use. We read the verses of our contemporary from Poland: "Russians can not create their own world, because like a banner, they carry a mate with them." And after all the poet speaks about us, about simple Russian people. He did not see his politicians in the eyes.

And the conclusion which the simple inhabitant has made is terrible: on Kolyma for such verses it is necessary to send.

No, sir, you are wrong! Such verses need to be listened to. And change yourself, and then, slowly and the world will start to change around you. And it takes some effort: you just have to say polite words to each other. A list of them can be made, for example, from the works of A.S. Pushkin:

"Will you be so kind?"

"I'm happy to serve you."

- I wish you health.

- With your prayers.

"Madam, I'm glad to tell you that you are lovely."

"Sir, and my husband also says so."

Some will say that this is all about counts and princes. But Pushkin drew from the thick of the people and immortalized the phrase: "The ignorant fight is looking, and the polite - friends." This idea is commensurate with his novel in verse.

Children give birth to adults, but they learn from adults themselves

There is a site where children express their thoughts about the benefits of courtesy. Good idea. But she lacks an attentive adult, who at least lists a polite word for the children. The poverty of children's lexicon in poems could hit a man of the nineteenth century. Three expressions: "Thank you", "Hello", and "Goodbye" crawl from one child's creation to another. But they are not to blame. We learn something from children, but learn, forgive, nothing. And children's enthusiasm about how nice and wonderful to be cultured and polite, give falsehood. But the adults who supervise this site are also deaf. They have the same polite words in their heads, like their children. No one made a list to them, and they, too, do not see, like their children, the need for it.

Beauty relations

The beauty of human relations is narrowed, it does not find its expression and fades. And the girl's 12-year-old saying that "words are not important, but important feelings" sounds adult not sincere. The deception of one's own feelings is heard in phrases that speak of the "unimportance" of words. The paradox of the situation is that this bad tone, which the little poetess heard from adults and introduced into her work, the adults did not notice and noted with the best hand the ability of the girl to pick rhymes. But technology is not poetry. Not technique creates poetry, but vice versa. Polite words ... The list does not need to be specially written, they must go from the depths of the soul. Moreover, they should be in place, not in rhyme. It would be better to fill the site with children's poems with words of gratitude to parents, grandmothers, friends, even toys! And examples ... let them be, as a technical aid, so that children and adults learn to express their best feelings and make them happy with their close people.