How to learn to read the language of a male body?

In the world of dating, there are a great many tips. We are lost in them, thereby complicating the search for a romantic partner. This often happens: people transmit information to us through open text, but sometimes secret messages can be encrypted in statements. Online dating makes us even more confused. Every pretender to your heart tries to appear before you in the most favorable light. And so, you are tired of endless searches and decided to meet someone with your own eyes. But you will never be able to predict how the scenario of your first meeting will develop. And this means that you need to learn how to read the body language of a potential partner. So you minimize the risks and do not begin to harbor empty illusions about the continuation of the novel. So, this man came to meet you. Here's what you need to know about his intentions.

Watch his posture

The position of the person who sits opposite you can indicate whether he is interested in you or not. It is not at all difficult to catch a glimpse of the slightest movements of his back. If, in response to your part of the dialogue, the man is slightly bent over you, then you really liked him. When his body is relaxed and his back is bent by a hook, most likely, this person is bored in your society. If his thoughts are occupied by something else on the first date, this is not a very good sign.

His eyes tell a lot about

You have heard this saying many times: eyes are the mirror of the soul. Probably, our ancestors were right. A clear and pure look directed towards you in the eyes clearly betrays the interlocutor's interest. Once you start talking, he looks at you and can not tear himself away. However, he does it in pauses between remarks. Another saying eloquently illustrates this situation: this guy "put his eye on you." This means that you obviously liked it. If he looks away, do not mislead yourself, writing off this for his shyness. Most likely, he expected to see the crowned "Miss Universe" in front of him and is now a bit disappointed. Also, a lack of interest can give a distraction to the scrolling of messages in the mobile phone. Is your society so boring that the interlocutor can not wait to share it with virtual friends?

Extended pupils

But if the direction of the sight can be controlled, the pupils' expansion at the moment of the "chemistry" that has arisen between people can not be controlled. This subtle signal means that the guy is completely absorbed in communicating with you. Dilation of the pupils is one way the brain responds to what you like. This can be compared to how you would like to see someone better.

Slight touch

This may seem obvious, but insignificant physical contact is an excellent way to demonstrate your interest. In order not to frighten off the pressure of the woman he likes, men practice subtle touches that are not of an explicit sexual nature. Relax, your interlocutor will not touch your hip, but just accidentally touch your wrist. When he passes by, he will surely touch the arm of your shoulder. It will be like a friendly gesture. But do not regard the lack of physical contact as a refusal to continue acquaintance. Some men respect the personal space of the lady and do not allow themselves even friendly touches.

Desire to approach physically

When a person completely takes possession of your heart, you on a subconscious level aspire to approach it physically. For example, when you walk around somewhere in the park, you like a magnet pulls to each other. Well, the respectful distance between the partners indicates a certain estrangement. The desire to be closer to the object of lust is characteristic of both women and men. If you can not understand his intentions, we suggest that you conduct a small test. Move closer to the man a little closer, and if possible, slightly tilt the body in his direction. You can sit next to him during supper so that the air is full of intimacy. If the gentleman does not withdraw and maintains this proximity, then he is interested in you.

Joyful smile

Another way to show your interest lies behind an open and sincere smile. However, you can show your sympathy with the help of a mysterious expression. Do not expect a smile from him in the "thirty-two teeth" during the whole conversation. To demonstrate interest, it is enough to smile once or twice. The explanation for this fact lies on the surface. When a person is really happy, it is unlikely he will hide this fact. Remember your experience with people of the opposite sex. When you felt physical sympathy, you felt a light longing in the chest and awe, which we used to refer to only as "butterflies in the belly." This condition occurs in a person who is in love. When you like someone's company, it's just impossible not to smile.

His posture, when he sits next to you

Earlier we talked about obvious signs of sympathy. There are more subtle signs related to the language of the human body. Observe the position in which the man is sitting next to you. If he crosses his legs so that the upper part of the trunk is detached from you - this is a bad sign. Most likely, this person does not treat you as a potential romantic partner. If he is interested, then the upper part of his body will be turned towards you.

It holds your palm

The gesture of "palm in the palm of your hand" also attests to a deep romantic interest. You will feel it even if you give yourself the installation not to pay attention to all these hidden signals. When a man takes you by the hand, he shows a desire to approach you. Well, however, listen to your intuition at the moment when it touches your palm. A friendly gesture is very different from trying to show a romantic interest.

Obsessive intrusion into personal space

Before that, we talked mostly about pleasant things. However, there are also unpleasant moments in communicating with representatives of the opposite sex. Beware of a man who is too aggressive towards you. Sexual preoccupation can manifest itself not only in vulgar hints, but also in an unceremonious intrusion into your personal space. For a date with an unfamiliar person, touch of a sexual nature is unacceptable. This shows that a man seeks to satisfy his lust and does not consider you as a pretender for a long relationship. In addition, he lacks tact, education and respect for women. If you are uncomfortable to continue to communicate with this person, no one will stop you from getting up and leaving.

Cheerful and relaxed atmosphere

Try to get the most emotional benefit from the meeting. Do not concentrate on small things throughout the evening. One or two obvious signs of his sympathy will be enough. Why should you "check" a man on an expanded list? Try to enjoy the meeting and do not forget about other people who are around you. Give them a little attention. Remember that your meetings can not lead to a romantic relationship. Enjoy the company of this man and thank fate for sending you another faithful friend.