Choosing Men

The hardest thing in life is a choice. When fate gives you a lot of surprises and from all this you need to choose. Choose what really you need, and most importantly, do not make a mistake and then do not regret. To the head then did not climb the thought: but if I chose another, then my life would be quite different ..
So it happens when choosing men. One is intelligent, the other is beautiful, the third will make you happy, but he is not beautiful or something else. And in my head my thoughts are spinning: yes, choose finally! Determined! Do not torture yourself or others. You think: Well, if I choose it, then suddenly it turns out to be juicy outside, but rotten inside. Well, or how to choose a watermelon. It looks bright green, sweet. Buying, you imagine how you will eat it greedily. And now, you bring him home. Cutting. And there .. There's not at all what you imagined. It is important not to choose such a watermelon. But how? This you could not foresee. Nobody knew beforehand that he was like that. So in life. It is your choice of a man who determines your life .. your future depends. The main thing is not to get hung up on this. Fate itself will decide whom to choose. Someone will leave, not tolerating your character. Who will not like something else. Who only with the passage of time will decide that you are not what he was looking for. And someone just curses to tell you: stay. The soul wants one, the heart of the other, and the mind at all, neither one nor the other.
So many have. One appears. Clever. Cute. Caring. So what? What's wrong with that? The heart refuses to accept it. Totally. But there is another. And the third. They do not want to admit that I need them. They do not want to show their feelings. Afraid to be rejected. What to do. Their life is so pathetic, that they are afraid. Afraid to be deceived. And if you think about it. Why waste energy and energy on someone who does not need all this. They'd rather live in a shell like a tortoise. To kick their heads, but they will understand that this is it. Soon it will happen. Quickly go into the shell and not show up until all is quiet. And when they get out already, they will understand that everything is like. So are they. They appear when the person who waited, realized that it was not worth it. Although no. Feelings do not pass so quickly. They just do not want to show anymore. That is life. You need someone, but you do not appreciate it. You need what half belongs to. What you expect in anticipation. You wait when it completely becomes yours. That's more interesting. And not something that you so easily got.