An evening of school friends or an evening of school enemies?

The alumni meeting day is a special day for those who regularly attend this annual event. For some people, this event is even more important than the New Year or birthday. However, many people even prefer to ignore this date, despite the constant invitations from former classmates. What is the reason for this attitude?

The fact is that this evening of school friends Already is not an old good school party and not a good opportunity to remember youth. The alumni meeting day is a tough competition, and the more time passes since the release, the tougher its rules and the rougher its members become.

The thing is, in school, all people are divided into groups, each of which has a strictly assigned social role. The school elite can not communicate with losers at all, and in the worst case it comes to regular assault. But in the adult world there are absolutely different rules and laws, which means that the social status of former classmates is changing in the most striking way. School leaders can be at the very bottom of society, while former losers break through to the very top.

What can people who come to the evening of school friends feel when they see that those whom they used to interfere with mud today outperform them in all respects? Surely, they will try in every possible way to belittle such a person, maximally sticking out their dignity, and such a struggle will not end. Of course, it's not about fights, as in the old days, from the side it will seem that the atmosphere of the feast is quite like at a party of best friends, But by covert tricks and jeers, you can understand that everything is not so rosy.

The situation, however, changes somewhat, when a very successful person turns out to be simply a successful person . Imagine that from the most ordinary class of the most ordinary school came out a famous football coach, musician or politician. Then all the school grievances will be forgotten, and from the invitations of such a person there will simply be no release. However, does the "star" want to participate in the party?

If this person in the school was also a leader, then the evening of school friends, who will turn into a one-man show, will obviously go to glory. On the other hand, if he tolerated the school mocking classmates, it is unlikely to forgive them even after many years. A successful person does not need to assert himself in the old school company, and there is no point in seeing people who are unpleasant to him. So you should not rush to convict "stars" in conceit, it's better to think about what attitude to them was in school years.

Another detail, which should be taken into account when talking about the evening of school friends, - this is the relationship between the sexes. Almost every one of us, even the most successful in school times, has a school love, which in those years was unattainable. And now there is a great opportunity to achieve what you want. After 10-20, or even 30 years, you can finally realize your dream, given that social roles have changed. But is it necessary? School times can not be returned, a man has changed a long time ago, and chasing an elusive shadow can only wipe out old wounds.

The past can not be returned, but it makes no sense to fight for what has long since passed away. That's why many people ignore the day of the meeting of the graduates. Instead of such a "party", it is better to think over the scenario of the holiday in the circle of friends, real friends, who have gone with you all the way of life, and walk away to glory. With real friends you do not have to pretend, you do not need to play the game "who is the best", you do not need to watch out for taunting. In such a company, you can really relax and rest your soul, and the school history remains a story.