A Good Husband, Will You Be Happy With Him?

How to choose a good husband?

I can not say, or explain, how can I find a husband? But if you have a boyfriend, and you want to marry him. Find out if he will be a good husband to you? A good guy does not mean that he will be a good husband to you. So think carefully before you marry him. Will you be happy with him? Many couples fall in love and marry without thinking about the future. And later it turns out that they did not agree with the character, they do not understand each other, they speak different languages. So learn from other people's mistakes. The mistake is a good lesson, but marriage is a serious step towards adulthood. Where you are responsible for two. Do you want this? When you are one it is possible. But not all are one whole. So I offer you my recommendations on this matter:

1. 1. If you have a common interest? (Books, movies, music, etc.). Common interests should always be. There is always something to talk about, discuss, argue.
2. 2. Introduce him to your friends. Find out their opinion of him, and his opinion of them. Why is this necessary? Because if your friends approve of it, and consider that he deserves you, that's good. And if he says that he does not like your friends, it will end up in the future, because they will start annoying him, and he will not want you to communicate with them. That they are bad for you, or they are not true friends.
3. 3. Meet his parents (family). Look at his father. Mostly they say: "What is a father, such is the son" Watch him. How does it relate to my mother. What role does it take in his life? If the main it will always interfere with your life. I'm not saying that he should not love his mother. Just respect, love is different. And to worship and unquestioningly listen to this different. Is he dependent on his mother? If the "yes" is bad
4. 4. Meet his friends. What are they? (Serious, funny) How do you spend time in the company with his friends (interesting, boring). As it passes, time quickly, or barely wait until the end of the evening. If among them are married people who walk. How does he treat this? What does he think about this, is he going to walk after his marriage? Look closely at how he looks at you on others. It seems to me, any will notice, if he looks around.
5. 5. Does he like to drink? It happens that he gets very drunk. How does he behave (aggression, anger, kind) what is he like? If he is aggressive, evil, then he may not control himself and not remember tomorrow what happened yesterday. So do not mess with this.
6. 6. Introduce yourself with your parents. Find out their opinion of him and him about them. This is important in the future they need to communicate with him. So it should be good, like his opinion of your parents.
7. 7. How does it work? Ask him to help around the house to his parents or a relative. Give him any work. Look at how it will work with pleasure, or not though. In this you can understand. Is he ready to help others. Can he extend a helping hand to any needy person. It's good to be kind and humane. "There are many people, but it is difficult to find a person".
8. 8. Now how do you plan for the future? Do you agree in opinion? In a word, are you looking in one direction? If you have a disagreement now, and you look differently at your future. Probably it is worth considering whether it is worth it for him to go out. If you have looked and do not agree with me.

After reading my recommendations, you can say why all this if I love him. And he likes me. And this is the main thing, why he should like everything. I live with him, and it's right for you to live with him. But, unfortunately, in the future it will still be, will dare on your life. You are not alone, there are people with whom you communicate, and this does not go away. So think carefully. And get married. I wish you happiness. But unfortunately happiness does not come to everyone who deserves it. Therefore, we must fight and achieve our own happiness. And do not sit on the seashore and wait for it to come to you. I wish you, to find a good husband, and a person in one person. Be a happy woman, mother and wife.