9 reasons never to run after the guys in life

So, you have a hobby. Sometimes this guy drives you crazy, and the next minute you feel happy. At one point you think that all hope is lost, but then you get one message from him, and everything starts from the beginning. We all know how to play this game, simply because everyone does that.

All girls hate this game, and if to be honest with herself, she is really crazy. We begin to analyze all the actions of this guy, starting with punctuation marks and ending with the time that he needs to respond to our message. And although for us it means a lot, for a guy, most likely, it does not mean anything at all. Here are a few reasons why you should never run after a guy. And remember, there are no exceptions to these rules.

1. If you run after someone who is not interested, it does not give you anything but the feeling of a vicious circle

When you meet the right person, you will not need to run after him, because both of you will want to be together. Your worlds will change, and the only thing that you will do is to move forward together. Otherwise, you just waste your time trying to get someone to fall in love with you.

2. You start to forget about people who have appeared in your life not by accident

You miss the cherished moments with friends and family, trying to create common moments with your passion, which will very soon be forgotten.

3. You offer your heart to someone who does not deserve it

This is not the person who will look after you, do everything to make you feel good, and who will always be there, because he does not need a life without you.

4. You spend your energy on fleeting passions

You have to spend your time focusing on long-term goals, and not on what will be important for you not more than a week.

5. You start forgetting about things that have been and remain important

You dreamed of something else and hoped for the best, so why bother with rare phone calls at two o'clock in the morning?

6. You are driving yourself crazy

These rare phone calls and messages are your best friends and at the same time the worst nightmare. You think that you are playing a game, but in fact someone is just playing with your feelings.

7. You run after the guy, instead of just letting your life go your own way

Stop analyzing every message you received from your passie, and let fate put everything in order. Let the present moment enter into your life and do not look for any explanations, because they are not.

8. Having an interest, maybe, is good, but at some point you will be hurt

Every time your phone turns on, you pray that it's him. And if this, indeed, he, on your face immediately appears stupid expression, which does not go away for a long time.

9. When he does not call, you begin to get nervous and read articles such as this

Then you realize that time is running out, and he is not answering you, and you were the last to send a message. It may seem like torture, but you know that you do not have to send one more message, because the previous one remained unanswered. But you still do it. In response, you do not get anything and get upset even more, until he lycnet your photo in "Instagram" - and everything starts from the beginning.

The fact is that you must not pursue someone's heart, pursue another person. Better start running around for your dreams and ambitions. Stop running around for love, let her look for you.