Sexual orientation hetero - the only sure way?

Times when in our country "there was no sex", have long ago sunk into oblivion. Today, everyone who is not lazy is free to discuss this topic. Yes, and close relations between members of the same sex is no longer an article of the Criminal Code, but a fashion trend. Despite the fact that heterosexual orientation is no longer considered the only acceptable, psychologists, sexologists and other serious men do not get tired of arguing about this. In this case, strong arguments are found both among supporters and opponents of same-sex love. Even experts can not understand this question. We do not set ourselves such a goal at all. Our task is only to list the well-known facts.

So, let's start with the main thing. The most common orientation is hetero. Attraction to the representatives of the opposite sex is experienced by more than 90% of the world population . Homosexuals and bisexuals are significantly smaller (apparently, therefore, their sexual behavior is considered a deviation from the norm).

The awareness of himself as a representative of a certain sex occurs in the child for years to five. Next, the individual forms sexual self-awareness and the direction of sexual desire.

Most sexologists and psychologists believe that the orientation of hetero or homo is laid in childhood. In their opinion, a great influence in this matter is due to correct sexual education.

It is generally accepted that homosexuals or lesbians grow up in single-parent families, where one of the parents is absent. True, it is not entirely clear where the bisexuals come from.

According to another version - sexual orientation is laid in the womb of the mother. And the cause of deviation from the norm are infectious diseases. Today, experts increasingly refer to the influence of the socio-cultural environment on the development of youthful sexuality. However, it seems that this reason worries politicians more than sexologists.

However, even in the absence of any restrictions, the sexual preferences of most people tend to be traditional. This is best confirmed by an experiment conducted by American psychologists.

From several families they created some kind of commune. According to the conditions of the hostel, it is absolutely not forbidden to engage in any type of sex, choosing partners according to their sexual fantasies.

For a while in the "family" free manners prevailed with a frequent change of partners and group orgies. But after some time everyone again broke up into heterosexual couples, separated, and began to zealously guard their relationship from outside encroachments.

Of course, monogamy and hetero orientation are a traditional, historically formed lifestyle. But it is not necessary to say that this is the only possible way to realize sexual attraction. There are at least three alternatives to the reference behavior model.

By the way, Canadian psychologists offered to supplement the list of minorities with pedophiles as well. In their opinion, this is the same sexual orientation as bi, or homo.

Now a little about how the deviations from the norm are formed. The society practically unanimously defines the sexual behavior of homosexuals as sexual promiscuity. Surprisingly, to the ladies - supporters of same-sex love, the attitude is much more tolerant.

However, scientists believe that the roots of the problem lie much deeper. For the first time to look at the problem of homosexuality as a feature of the human psyche, Carl Ulrichs (1825-1895) decided, who himself had an unconventional orientation. As an interested person, he approached the issue very thoroughly and in a couple of years released a scientific paper "Study of the mystery of love between men."

By the way, the term "sexual orientation" was used by him. Most of his contemporaries did not support his colleague. According to the fashion of that time to lead controversy in the printed publications, Richard Kraft-Ebing published his opus, in which he called homosexuality only "degenerative state of the psyche."

Curiously, but today there is a mass of supporters of this theory, which recommend various methods of psychological correction of deviant behavior when choosing a sexual partner. However, no cases of "miraculous healing" have been observed so far.

On esotericists on this account there is own opinion. They believe that same-sex relationships do not give harmony, because they lack two components (male and female). To talk about love between partners in this case is completely unacceptable.
However, to instruct, instruct, refer to religious dogma and the opinion of the majority can be as many as you want. But do not forget that any person has the right to dispose of his body at his own discretion. The only correct solution to the problem can be only tolerance and tolerant attitude towards those who constitute a minority.