Life without disappointment, or How to make it so that the wish is fulfilled

Man is a being that feels, thinks and desires, so sometimes it happens that all our thoughts and feelings are absorbed in a dream about something so important for us that it becomes the meaning of all life. It is easy to imagine how much disappointment, when hopes are falling, and the cherished dream remains in the past, and has not become a reality. How to avoid disappointment, how to make sure that the wish is fulfilled? How to live life, dreaming and achieving one's own?

Why do not we get what we want?

From the very childhood we were told that it was not enough to make a wish: to be fulfilled, one must very much want it! This statement is true, and false at the same time. Imagine the situation, you need to crack the nut. You press it with forceps with all the power and, instead of a mouth-watering nucleolus, get fragments of shell and crumbs. With our dreams we do the same. We so "press" the situation with our energy, that either we get not what we wanted, or we do not get anything. Our dreams, like nuts, crack under our pressure. So how to achieve the fulfillment of desires?

In all the measure is needed

Now imagine two balls that roll towards each other and meet at a certain point. Let this situation be a schematic representation of the fulfillment of desire. The balls, having received the impulse, start their journey, and everything is still going fine, but you want them to meet quickly, because you want the dream to come true, push one of the balls, and it flies by a few seconds earlier. In the same way you influence the events of your life, constantly try to "achieve" and "speed up", and then wonder why it does not work! Analyze the example with balls: how to make sure that the wish is fulfilled? The only sure way is not to interfere with the development of the situation. You gave impetus, pushed the balls, now you just need to step aside and wait. In real life, everything is more complicated, but there are not many fundamental differences. Did you notice that sometimes it is enough to give up everything by hand so that the situation is suddenly resolved in the best way for you? How do people speak in such cases? "I have already stopped waiting," "when there was no hope," "I already forgot" - these phrases perfectly characterize the basic principles of the mechanism for the fulfillment of desires.

How to make sure that the wish is fulfilled?

In order for your dreams to come true, they must be as specific as possible. You can not just want "a lot of money" or "a good wife", the universe does not accept abstract orders: draw the image of your dreams as clearly as possible, with all the details that only can come to your mind. If you dream of a car, you need to know exactly which brand it will be, what color, how much it will cost. If about wealth, it should be a specific figure. If about family happiness, you should clearly visualize your partner, his appearance, height, weight, age, habits. The clearer the image, the faster your order will be executed. Imagine that you took a taxi and asked to take you home without telling the address. Do you have a chance to get there, if the taxi driver is not your neighbor on the landing? You must clearly articulate your desire, and then calmly switch to other pressing problems without trying to influence the course of events. Do not break your head and do not try to understand how the universe will fulfill your order. You have already completed your part of the work, now do not interfere in someone else's. Now that you know how to make it so that the desire is fulfilled, go for it, embody your dreams and be happy!