Who are Alfonso and how to recognize them?

Unfortunately, single women are becoming more and more every year. Why is this happening? People like to say that there are three categories of men:

• Married;
• Homosexuals;
• Drug addicts, alcoholics and other rabble.

In addition, the number of women in the country significantly exceeds the number of men. Of course, there are not enough princes, and there are not enough of them at all. Probably, this is what caused the appearance of yet another category of representatives of the strong half of humanity - Alfonso. And their number is growing rapidly. After all, women who do not have a personal life, seek to achieve success at least in their careers. And often this is doing well. Only here happiness from it, for some reason, is not added.

So who are these gigolo? Roughly speaking, these are men who live off women. Although, of course, to call such "individuals" men do not turn their tongues. But nevertheless, the demand for such a gigolo exists. And if there is a demand, then the offer will not take long. And it's all right, if a wealthy woman consciously seeks the illusion of happiness and is ready to pay a man for what he will be with her. But where more often it happens that those who want easy money from the stronger sex themselves find rich (and not so) ladies. After all, who are these gigolo? These are men who are very well versed in female psychology, unprincipled, cynical, who can convincingly lie and not blush at the same time. Some of them are really ardent misogynists, therefore they consider it their duty to swallow as many unsuspecting ladies as possible. They are very skillfully rubbed into trust and find the right approach to almost any woman. At first they can even be beautifully looked after. And this happens exactly until it comes Confidence that the woman finally fell in love. Now you can "rope the thread" out of it. Immediately these men start some problems at work (they are fired, they do not pay their wages, etc.), or they want to open their own firm, but, allegedly, there is not enough money to do it. Many more reasons can come up with gigolo. The black list, photos and gloomy stories of women caught on the bait of scammers can be found on the Internet. After all, these scammers not only "drain" money from the ladies in love, but it happens that they simply steal them, and then disappear in an unknown direction. Apparently, they go in search of a new victim.

The popular nowadays writer Lena Lenina has a book called "Alphonse, or Love Scammers". It describes very brightly all sorts of tricks of mercenary men, their manipulations, intrigues and other interesting things that may well be useful to ladies who do not want to fall into the trap of a gigolo. Is it possible to somehow recognize such a "specimen" in the first stages of acquaintance? If you are careful, you can. After all, who are these gigolo? These are men who know how to like women first. For the beautiful compliments that they skillfully (and even professionally) shower their "chosen one", the young lady may not even pay attention to the completely innocuous questions of the gentleman about where and with whom she lives, where she works, how much she earns, etc. Her It might seem that he just became very interested in her. And she will be right if her answers satisfy his selfish motives. Therefore, it is not worth while sharing information of this nature. The best option is to avoid a direct answer. You do not want to find out on your personal sad experience who these gigolo are? And such inquiries, thinly veiled for simple curiosity, may well indicate that you are faced with a real gigolo.