How to meet a guy easily and unobtrusively

Every girl ever wondered how to get to know a guy. But in fact in such a short question many aspects are hidden: where is it best to get acquainted, how to start right, what to say, how to understand whether it is worth continuing the conversation, how not to get into a stupid situation ... and much, much more.

Begin to understand the topic of how to first get acquainted with a guy is, of course, with the choice of place. This could be your job or institution, a club for interests, places you often visit (theaters, exhibitions, libraries), your own yard, public transport, a shop. Of course, there are situations where there is only a female team at work, the interest club is called "sewing and sewing courses", and often the places visited are only home and work, and getting acquainted on the street or in transport seems something indecent. What to do then? Search. That's it, do not expect a casual meeting, and make a little effort to ensure that this meeting took place. Next it remains to determine what type of man you need. If strong and athletic is your ideal, then go to the sports club several times or engage in martial arts, or start skiing, in general, as they say, combine business with pleasure. If for you the main thing in men is intelligence and education, then it's worth looking into libraries, exhibitions, enrolling in courses on literature or history, going to theaters. Of course, in the store "hunter and fisherman" you can meet a candidate of science, but still in the "thematic" places the probability of this is much higher.

The next question from the series "how to get to know the guy" is the way of dating. The overwhelming majority of men are by nature their defenders and helpers, although often because of modesty or shyness they do not show it. In that case, you need to help them a little. The easiest way to get to know a guy is to ask him or ask for help. For example, if you liked the guy you saw at the bus stop, you can ask him what bus you can get to a certain stop, ask if he saw when he was passing 56 ("I'm standing there, but he's not here, that's it , Already have doubts about the beginning, whether he walks here at all "). The main thing here is not what you say, but the fact that the conversation has already started, so if you liked the guy, then he will support him in 90% of cases.

A win-win option for getting to know a guy is to come to a store that specializes in selling gear, and ask the guy you like to help you pick gear as a gift for your dad (brother, uncle). And if you add with absolutely sincere and unhappy appearance "I do not understand anything at all about this, but you are so good at everything", then no man will stand before you.

If you are worried about the question of how to get to know the guy in an original way, here are a few simple options: Go to the guy who looks like you are absolutely sure and say something like: "Hello, how's Oleg doing? I have not seen him for a hundred years. " When a guy starts to explain to you that you have made a mistake, you just have to take an embarrassed look and begin to apologize, and then the guy will most likely continue the conversation himself, because no "true gentleman" will allow a girl to be sad for such a stupid mistake . Another option is very original, but only suitable for confident girls. Going next to the guy you like, pretend that you are talking on the phone with a friend (do not shout at the whole street, but so that he can hear) and start in this "conversation" to describe what an interesting young man is walking next to you. How good he looks (an excellent figure, so cute, so stylishly dressed, the hair is just the highest class, etc.), and that even at first glance you can see how clever, wonderful and cheerful he is. After he heard how good and cheerful he is, there will be nothing else but him to come up to prove to you that this is all true.

If you are afraid of getting to know a guy for the first time only because you think that you can look ridiculous or ridiculous, then just do a mini-experiment. Ask 10 of their friends guys how they can describe in two words the girl who will approach them, and you will see that among the answers: "courageous," "interesting," "unusual," there will not be any "ridiculous". The main thing to remember is to get acquainted easily and unobtrusively, causing or aggressive behavior is simply inappropriate.